"I couldn't do that. I'm bad at math."

I was reading another blog post today (The Myth of ‘I’m Bad at Math’) and had a line stick out to me describing what it takes to succeed in a math class: “For high-school math, inborn talent is much less important than hard work, preparation, and self-confidence.”

I’d like to expand on that.

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard some variation of “Wow – I couldn’t do that.” From telling people I was a Math major to telling people I now teach Math and Physics, it’s almost always the same.

“Whew – I wasn’t good at math.”
“You must be crazy.”
“Good for you.”
“I’ve never been able to do well at math.”
“You must be really smart.”

While I pridefully relish the idea that I’m inherently intelligent, that’s just not true. I’m not particularly smarter than most. I just worked at it.

The heart of the matter is that math is hard until you practice it. To get good at identifying the domain and range of a function, you have to have some experience doing it. But almost everything is that way. I can’t pick up a golf club and instantly get a hole-in-one. I likely couldn’t even be anywhere near on par. But if I took 15 minutes a day to practice, eventually I could. Why should we expect any less from math?

But that only covers part of the story – the hard work and preparation. Let’s talk about self-confidence.

For my classroom, I’d like to think I can push students to work hard and hold them to standards of preparedness, but I have much less influence on their self-confidence. I do my best to praise accomplishments and minimize the focus on error. I structure material so they can make lots of small victories until they’re ready to tackle big victories. Yet, one negative influence can undo the work of many positive influences.

I believe having an adult say “I was terrible at math” is one of the most disheartening things a student struggling in math can hear. In this one little sentence, there’s two messages to a struggling student: 1) someone they see as smart struggled in math and 2) they don’t even use math anymore. I’m not sure you could kill self-confidence quicker.

(Now, I do realize that for a student doing well in math, hearing someone say “I was terrible at math” can give them a boost of encouragement, but for this post we’re less concerned with those students – they’re already doing well.)


So, if you’re talking to a student about math, I’d love it if you’d focus on the “work hard and be confident” bit.

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